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Relationships of the Society

 Present day we require awesome amount of patience and gratitude for nothing good, but nobody bothers about your efforts to manage and maintain the social conscience in hand. As everybody blindly obeys the rituals, festivals and functions and take it granted, this society has been lacking. Kshudram Hridayadourbhalyam Thyakthotthistha Paranthapah (Wake up from your deep sleep of ignorance and from deceived facts or fears). 

The following points to be taken into account while thinking for a better relationship with social community:

1. Get ready to give everything to others try not to take anything from others. 

Reasoning: Society is in search of a father figure always asks its own people to provide refugee for its own. Neither anybody asks with a rebellion voice, nor any changes do happen. Moreover, your voice will be suppressed, or you will become a numb persona. On many occasions I was told not to spell a single word against any mischief happened to me in the name of Pratha (a ritual or a function) though I was correct enough to defend. Ask anybody in the society that how it gets functioning. I am sure that they say they are afraid of utter anything, they have a fear of losing their existence. Thus, you have to take decisions out of your own experience. Dhairye Sahase Lakshmi (Be courageous). 

2. Sacrifice your individuality to impress the people around you.

Reasoning: It happened to me once that never speak in your mother tongue (or accent) as because their friends may complaint against me that I am uncivilized. I had to change my accent into a smooth accent. At the time I almost improvised my voice into a so called "smooth and cultured or civilized" language, I was told to maintain my originality. This is an irony. People try to influence you until you take them granted, hence never borrow any ideas nor obey their suggestions.  Hence, you are always in a dwindling situation like your mind is in a sway between your choice and others' opinion. I feel that you take your choice irrespective of the benefits or sorrow it brings you as because you are taking whole responsibility of your life. Uddharetha tadathmanam (That means you are already become an individual.




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