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Marriage -Is it a mess or mystery

Commentary on Osho's "The new dawn#talk-20"                                        

This is what the case about the marriage in this society and the so-called partners having love, respect, and all other jargon. It's all deceiving on another in the name of power, dominance, and possession. It is so ugly to be that living with the predator may be much more safer and comfortable than to live with the partner. A meditative person understands himself/herself first then he could understand others too, it is the case of love also. But, the non-meditator or an utterly ignorant cannot judge correctly and healthily about him/her self -forget about judging rightly others. However, a meditation creates a certain space in the heart to allow others, but an egoist is not having this. Unfortunately, our society is full of #egoists because in the name of #culture, #prestige, #morale, #relgion, #tradition, as well as #all_unnecessary_psychological_burdens have been conditioned or screwed into the #children mind from down the centuries. Definitely, this past conditioning makes every child as an #egoist because useful grains can be harvested but never can be get from a vegetation or a weed. These #egoism is a weed like weirdness a #vegetation with full of #garbage not of #useful_grains. Hence, the #nuisance between both and among each other....life becomes a mess rather it becomes a mystery to be chased or experienced. So much misery is being accumulated in the society is only the individuals are responsible not the society because without the individual there is no society as such.  

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